Hey,
Sorry to have been away for some time... I've moved to Oxford so I've changed my blog...
I've got loads to update it with so hope you'll pay a visit:
http://oxfordm4m.blogspot.co.uk
*hugs* Jack
Friday 11 May 2012
Wednesday 29 February 2012
Sorry, no updates...
Had a few problems with internet connection and a few other stressy things.
I've found I can blog from my phone though :D so more posts up very soon!
Thanks & hugs :)
Thursday 16 February 2012
Advertising Nightmares
I think I've said that
I mainly advertise on London craigslist, it's not the best place as
really it's not for that... Recently there seems to be someone that
has taken it upon themselves to flag/report every advert for paid
meets, whether male or female... that makes it quite hard work,
almost competing with this person to keep the ads on!
I was talking to M
about this and funnily enough it doesn't just seem to be my type of
ad but it would seem that this person or people are reporting ads if
they don't get a reply back, if so that's a real shame, we can't all
be someone's cup of tea and just because you reply to an advert
doesn't mean that person is going to respond, maybe the wrong age,
type or just down to location being difficult...
Anyway, I'll keep on
with it, I've also started using a couple of other sites,
blazingmonkey.com seems to work as they have a section for escorts,
straight & gay but craigslist seems to attract more viewers. I
don't know if anyone disagrees with escorts advertising here but if
there is a £ in the title why not just ignore it and move on to the
other ads, there are people that enjoy paying and it also means that
it is strictly a no-strings meet, well if the escort is being
professional that is!
Life Model... a new one for me!
I decided to try
advertising on a different website last week, thought no harm and it
was free.
I use a separate phone
number for putting on adverts although always reply with my main
number, this is really as I'd prefer some privacy and just in case
friends (or perish the thought) family should happen across one of my
adverts :O
So, I had a few replies
for massage work, like usual but I did get one unusual reply, an
artist who liked doing doing life drawing... he wasn't a
professional, more a hobby. He did point out that he liked doing
this naked too, fine with me! We agreed the rate, he gave very good
directions and off I went.
He was a lovely,
friendly guy, put me at ease very quickly, I was nervous as I have
never done anything like this before... I undressed, he took his
dressing gown off and from there it was just sitting for 15 minutes
at time, change position and sit/lay still... I think I dozed off at
one point! I did notice that he was hard for most of the session but
nothing happened, that was odd as it did cross my mind to do
something more but that wasn't why I was there!
His drawings were
excellent and he's sending them through so once they arrive I'll post
them here.
Wednesday 8 February 2012
Just a few pics of me...
I hate my photos but here goes... I will only send a face pic to a potential client though!
Doing What the Carer Won't!
Another hotel booking, I love visiting hotels, I don't stay in the 5* ones very often myself and it's always fun & interesting to see. Plus I quite like picking up some of the goodies in the bathroom... in this job the importance of being clean shaven (face!) and well groomed requires quite a lot of moisturiser!!!
I arrived in Park Lane, a few mints and then went to the lobby of the large rather posh hotel and sent a text to the client. I never ask for photos or really much about them as I am the one that is there to please them. He said he'd be down in 5 mins so I caught up with texts and emails on my phone while I waited keeping an eye on the lifts. Various business men were coming down and I glanced at each wondering if that was the one...
While waiting I noticed one guy, with crutches and slowly making his way across the lobby, it really didn't occur that he'd be the client. He was young, probably 20 at most, he headed towards me and I realised. I appologised for making him come all the way to me as it took a long time for him. We made our way to the lifts and on to his room.
I undressed and he did the same, it took him a long time to remove his jeans so I went to help but he said no, he could manage, it wasn't awkward though. This was a no massage situation, he wanted relief and to be with another guy. He was lovely and although it was over with quicker than I had allowed for he was happy and that was the main thing.
I arrived in Park Lane, a few mints and then went to the lobby of the large rather posh hotel and sent a text to the client. I never ask for photos or really much about them as I am the one that is there to please them. He said he'd be down in 5 mins so I caught up with texts and emails on my phone while I waited keeping an eye on the lifts. Various business men were coming down and I glanced at each wondering if that was the one...
While waiting I noticed one guy, with crutches and slowly making his way across the lobby, it really didn't occur that he'd be the client. He was young, probably 20 at most, he headed towards me and I realised. I appologised for making him come all the way to me as it took a long time for him. We made our way to the lifts and on to his room.
I undressed and he did the same, it took him a long time to remove his jeans so I went to help but he said no, he could manage, it wasn't awkward though. This was a no massage situation, he wanted relief and to be with another guy. He was lovely and although it was over with quicker than I had allowed for he was happy and that was the main thing.
Threesome
I mentioned in my previous post about this.
The situation being that a previous regular client had arranged to hook up with an American visitor staying in a (very posh!) hotel. He was nervous and also liked the idea of experiencing a threesome but didn't want the other guy to know that I was ummm hired help! So the story being that I was a mate and that now and again we'd meet for a bit of light fun.
I arranged to meet both of them outside the hotel as they had met for drinks while I was travelling over, shook hands, client asked how I'd been and off we went to the hotel suite, it wasn't just a room! So, American guy asked if we wanted drinks, they had a beer each but I opted for water, this was a new situation for me and as I was being paid I thought it best to keep off the beers!
It felt slightly awkward, both were saying they'd never done anything like this and there was a bit of nervous giggling so I thought well, it's my job to get this going...
I undressed to my boxers, they both smiled and joked that I was keen, and they both dropped their jeans, both seemed to still be nervous, they were standing close together so I got on my knees and felt them both up getting them hard while they kissed.... it seemed to suit the situation that I was more submissive, so mainly for the duration of the hour or so I was on my knees sucking each in turn. we made it to the bed, where I was in the middle and a lot of just touching and wanking going on. Both were very close to cumming so, client asked where they should, I said anywhere I just wanted to see them shoot! American suggested my face, I nodded and smiled and closed my eyes!
American guy was lovely, ran off to get a towel for me once they were done and while client used the bathroom he was asking if I was okay and seemed a bit concerned, I assured him I enjoyed every minute. I needed a shower, also needed to find a way to get paid without the American guy knowing so I asked him if he'd like to shower me off and to go get it running... in that time the client paid me, I hid the money away and he made his way home. I had the shower as quickly as I could as now I wasn't being paid and it was time for me to head home, plus I was starving! I don't tend to eat before seeing a client, I have no idea why, just one of my funny ways!
The situation being that a previous regular client had arranged to hook up with an American visitor staying in a (very posh!) hotel. He was nervous and also liked the idea of experiencing a threesome but didn't want the other guy to know that I was ummm hired help! So the story being that I was a mate and that now and again we'd meet for a bit of light fun.
I arranged to meet both of them outside the hotel as they had met for drinks while I was travelling over, shook hands, client asked how I'd been and off we went to the hotel suite, it wasn't just a room! So, American guy asked if we wanted drinks, they had a beer each but I opted for water, this was a new situation for me and as I was being paid I thought it best to keep off the beers!
It felt slightly awkward, both were saying they'd never done anything like this and there was a bit of nervous giggling so I thought well, it's my job to get this going...
I undressed to my boxers, they both smiled and joked that I was keen, and they both dropped their jeans, both seemed to still be nervous, they were standing close together so I got on my knees and felt them both up getting them hard while they kissed.... it seemed to suit the situation that I was more submissive, so mainly for the duration of the hour or so I was on my knees sucking each in turn. we made it to the bed, where I was in the middle and a lot of just touching and wanking going on. Both were very close to cumming so, client asked where they should, I said anywhere I just wanted to see them shoot! American suggested my face, I nodded and smiled and closed my eyes!
American guy was lovely, ran off to get a towel for me once they were done and while client used the bathroom he was asking if I was okay and seemed a bit concerned, I assured him I enjoyed every minute. I needed a shower, also needed to find a way to get paid without the American guy knowing so I asked him if he'd like to shower me off and to go get it running... in that time the client paid me, I hid the money away and he made his way home. I had the shower as quickly as I could as now I wasn't being paid and it was time for me to head home, plus I was starving! I don't tend to eat before seeing a client, I have no idea why, just one of my funny ways!
Role Play!
I suppose there's an element of role play with every client I see, the whole massage experience, getting turned on by the masseur and also turning them on.
Other clients have requested boyfriend experience, one client has emailed saying I'm ideal as I'm the no strings boyfriend, we text each other and joke around and he can say anything he wants to me as generally I'm unshockable, although I would say something sarcastic rather than anything and make light of it! This type of booking means meeting in a hotel bar or pub and having a few drinks, chatting and then moving on to their room or back to their place.
I have been asked to follow a certain scenario, the client has emailed telling me exactly what they expect for example turning up and sitting on the sofa, they come in and start to kiss me, lead me to the bedroom and undress me etc... that's not a problem at all!
The threesome, where a regular client booked me as he had arranged to meet a hotel visitor but wanted my company both due to nerves and the idea of a threesome. The main requirement here was that the other guy had no idea that I was being paid to be there but we were mates that messed around now and again... that makes for a post of it's own though!
Finally, I did say in my previous post I'd say about the bad experience, it was like any other booking, I turned up and gave the massage, happy ending and everything went well, or so I thought! I got ready and there was some small talk, as I went to leave and waited for payment he said that it wasn't what he wanted and refused to pay! I was kind of stuck, what could I do, I did say that he seemed to enjoy it all the way through but a difficult situation so I left and decided to put it down to experience.
Other clients have requested boyfriend experience, one client has emailed saying I'm ideal as I'm the no strings boyfriend, we text each other and joke around and he can say anything he wants to me as generally I'm unshockable, although I would say something sarcastic rather than anything and make light of it! This type of booking means meeting in a hotel bar or pub and having a few drinks, chatting and then moving on to their room or back to their place.
I have been asked to follow a certain scenario, the client has emailed telling me exactly what they expect for example turning up and sitting on the sofa, they come in and start to kiss me, lead me to the bedroom and undress me etc... that's not a problem at all!
The threesome, where a regular client booked me as he had arranged to meet a hotel visitor but wanted my company both due to nerves and the idea of a threesome. The main requirement here was that the other guy had no idea that I was being paid to be there but we were mates that messed around now and again... that makes for a post of it's own though!
Finally, I did say in my previous post I'd say about the bad experience, it was like any other booking, I turned up and gave the massage, happy ending and everything went well, or so I thought! I got ready and there was some small talk, as I went to leave and waited for payment he said that it wasn't what he wanted and refused to pay! I was kind of stuck, what could I do, I did say that he seemed to enjoy it all the way through but a difficult situation so I left and decided to put it down to experience.
Being New to London & Late Evening Booking Worries
A booking came in for 9.30pm, I thought well that's fine and very clear directions, tune then bus and a short walk... I headed off... the tube took a lot longer than I thought so knew I wouldn't arrive until around 10pm so I text the client who was fine about this and caught the bus.... wow, I thought it was taking me out of London, being new to London it all got a bit stressful! The main worry was getting home that evening, it felt like being in the middle of nowhere, I feel so silly now that I was worried!
Arrived at just after 10pm, the first thing the client wanted to do was sit down and have a quick chat, I guess to check me out, he had had a rather bad experience with a masseur. Apparently this particular guy was unfriendly, obsessed with time and just made the client feel very uncomfortable and by all accounts wasn't particularly clean either :O
All was fine, so we both got undressed, he decided he'd prefer that he lay on the floor... I said that was fine and of course it was but my knees certainly felt it!
Afterwards he asked that I stay for a cup of herbal tea and a chat, I said yes even though I was really stressing about the time, it was after 11pm and I had quite a journey to do to get home! I showered and while he did I made the tea and we sat down and had a good chat, I think he mainly needed someone to talk to about various troubles he'd been going through, work, relationships & London being a lonely place to live etc.
I left around 11.45pm and the journey was fine, yes it was a late night but I realised there was no need to panic or worry about transport really.
Something else I had come to realise, if you have seen the TV series Diary of a Call Girl and stuff like that you might have seen that the escort always wants their payment up front, this doesn't really happen for me. I suppose I should be more direct but apart from one experience it's always been fine to get that sorted out at the end, for me it seems less cold to do it then. I think next post will be about the one bad experience I've had...
Arrived at just after 10pm, the first thing the client wanted to do was sit down and have a quick chat, I guess to check me out, he had had a rather bad experience with a masseur. Apparently this particular guy was unfriendly, obsessed with time and just made the client feel very uncomfortable and by all accounts wasn't particularly clean either :O
All was fine, so we both got undressed, he decided he'd prefer that he lay on the floor... I said that was fine and of course it was but my knees certainly felt it!
Afterwards he asked that I stay for a cup of herbal tea and a chat, I said yes even though I was really stressing about the time, it was after 11pm and I had quite a journey to do to get home! I showered and while he did I made the tea and we sat down and had a good chat, I think he mainly needed someone to talk to about various troubles he'd been going through, work, relationships & London being a lonely place to live etc.
I left around 11.45pm and the journey was fine, yes it was a late night but I realised there was no need to panic or worry about transport really.
Something else I had come to realise, if you have seen the TV series Diary of a Call Girl and stuff like that you might have seen that the escort always wants their payment up front, this doesn't really happen for me. I suppose I should be more direct but apart from one experience it's always been fine to get that sorted out at the end, for me it seems less cold to do it then. I think next post will be about the one bad experience I've had...
First Massage
Following my first experience I was feeling a lot more confident, I'd done it now, it was fun and although I expected to feel a bit odd about accepting money I really didn't, it was an arrangement that suited the client and me so where's the harm in that!
So, the reply to my ad arrived, a few emails where I was clear on the hours rate (£50) but there was a problem, this client could not accommodate due to being married etc... being a bit silly, I decided once we had swapped numbers I would let him come to the flat I was sharing. My flatmate was at work and needing the money I didn't really think it would be a problem.
We arranged the time and I showered, waited rather nervously for the text to say he was outside the flats where I lived. I decided rather than buzz him in to go down and open the door. He was a really pleasant man, older than I had expected, probably late 60's (which I discovered later) but looked more 50's.
Once in the flat I got him a glass of water with lots of ice, myself one too and led him to the bedroom where I had put a towel on the bed (to save the bedding getting oily!) and also a clean towel on the side in case he wanted a shower afterwards.
We both stripped, he got comfortable and I got on with the massage, initially, probably through nerves he made small talk but soon relaxed and it was quiet but relaxed. Now and again he would say how much he was enjoying it. After I had spent a long time on his back, shoulders & legs (of course being a bit cheeky when massaging the tops of his legs and accidently on purpose brushing past his balls!) I asked him to turn over where I gently massaged his chest, legs and seeing he had an erection started to gently jack him off, he was touching me too and pretty soon I'd cum across his chest and he was shooting too! It made us both laugh, what a mess!
I got a hand towel for him to wipe himself down and he went off for a shower. When he came out he was full of chat telling me about his children & grand children and what he had done for a living before retiring... A lovely guy... after he left I felt a little guilty knowing he was married but decided to put that out of my mind. It was his decision to book me and if he was happy with it then who am I to worry!
So, the reply to my ad arrived, a few emails where I was clear on the hours rate (£50) but there was a problem, this client could not accommodate due to being married etc... being a bit silly, I decided once we had swapped numbers I would let him come to the flat I was sharing. My flatmate was at work and needing the money I didn't really think it would be a problem.
We arranged the time and I showered, waited rather nervously for the text to say he was outside the flats where I lived. I decided rather than buzz him in to go down and open the door. He was a really pleasant man, older than I had expected, probably late 60's (which I discovered later) but looked more 50's.
Once in the flat I got him a glass of water with lots of ice, myself one too and led him to the bedroom where I had put a towel on the bed (to save the bedding getting oily!) and also a clean towel on the side in case he wanted a shower afterwards.
We both stripped, he got comfortable and I got on with the massage, initially, probably through nerves he made small talk but soon relaxed and it was quiet but relaxed. Now and again he would say how much he was enjoying it. After I had spent a long time on his back, shoulders & legs (of course being a bit cheeky when massaging the tops of his legs and accidently on purpose brushing past his balls!) I asked him to turn over where I gently massaged his chest, legs and seeing he had an erection started to gently jack him off, he was touching me too and pretty soon I'd cum across his chest and he was shooting too! It made us both laugh, what a mess!
I got a hand towel for him to wipe himself down and he went off for a shower. When he came out he was full of chat telling me about his children & grand children and what he had done for a living before retiring... A lovely guy... after he left I felt a little guilty knowing he was married but decided to put that out of my mind. It was his decision to book me and if he was happy with it then who am I to worry!
First Adventure!
Well on looking through my emails I've found the first experience.... and had nothing to do with massage!
I had a reply from a guy who didn't want to be massaged, but wanted to watch me jacking off in my boxers, the agreement was that I'd leave my undies with him when I left!
So after a few emails and swapping numbers (to text each other) I got myself ready, the specific requirement that the boxers were worn so no need to change from yesterdays and I sleep in mine so they were worn for over 24 hours I looked up the address on google maps and decided to walk, it would take a good 45 mins but I was pretty strapped for cash and also I told myself it would be a good way to start discovering London.
I was pretty nervous, not really about meeting the guy but I had to go into gated flats, through a courtyard, a porters office, another courtyard then ring to get access to to the building! I realised having to go up in a lift is a good thing, final check on what I looked like etc in the mirror and tell myself to just relax...
It was great when the door opened to meet a nice, quiet & friendly guy... he showed me in to the sitting room where he had set up his laptop with some xtube porn, he then left the room, I think part of the fantasy was to walk back in to see me sitting there jacking away looking at the laptop.... I went for it! He came in and sat across from me and watched then knelt in front of me, stroking my legs and then pulled my boxers down, inspecting them and sniffing them, put them down and next thing I knew he was giving me a bj, which was very nice indeed! I put my legs over his shoulders while he licked my balls and jacked off... stood up in front of him, messy and dripping with my dick in his face while he jacked himself off!
It was quite an experience, lots of fun!
So, the first thing awkward thing happened... once it's over getting ready and making a little small talk and payment! I felt that it was over with and really he would prefer I leave as soon as possible, he put the money on the table where I had left my clothes and I hurried to get ready... thanked him and decided against shaking hands, that would just be cold... so when he saw me to the door put my hand on his shoulder and said I enjoyed meeting him!
I have met this guy three of four times now, always fun and a pleasure to see him! Although thinking about it I must go buy some more boxers!!!
I had a reply from a guy who didn't want to be massaged, but wanted to watch me jacking off in my boxers, the agreement was that I'd leave my undies with him when I left!
So after a few emails and swapping numbers (to text each other) I got myself ready, the specific requirement that the boxers were worn so no need to change from yesterdays and I sleep in mine so they were worn for over 24 hours I looked up the address on google maps and decided to walk, it would take a good 45 mins but I was pretty strapped for cash and also I told myself it would be a good way to start discovering London.
I was pretty nervous, not really about meeting the guy but I had to go into gated flats, through a courtyard, a porters office, another courtyard then ring to get access to to the building! I realised having to go up in a lift is a good thing, final check on what I looked like etc in the mirror and tell myself to just relax...
It was great when the door opened to meet a nice, quiet & friendly guy... he showed me in to the sitting room where he had set up his laptop with some xtube porn, he then left the room, I think part of the fantasy was to walk back in to see me sitting there jacking away looking at the laptop.... I went for it! He came in and sat across from me and watched then knelt in front of me, stroking my legs and then pulled my boxers down, inspecting them and sniffing them, put them down and next thing I knew he was giving me a bj, which was very nice indeed! I put my legs over his shoulders while he licked my balls and jacked off... stood up in front of him, messy and dripping with my dick in his face while he jacked himself off!
It was quite an experience, lots of fun!
So, the first thing awkward thing happened... once it's over getting ready and making a little small talk and payment! I felt that it was over with and really he would prefer I leave as soon as possible, he put the money on the table where I had left my clothes and I hurried to get ready... thanked him and decided against shaking hands, that would just be cold... so when he saw me to the door put my hand on his shoulder and said I enjoyed meeting him!
I have met this guy three of four times now, always fun and a pleasure to see him! Although thinking about it I must go buy some more boxers!!!
Things to Make and Do!
Well, here goes, I've finally started the blog and here's a bit about me...
I moved to London in October 2011, for many reasons, mainly personal but mainly I wanted to start over. I've done many things since leaving home when I was 18, lived all over the UK and had a few different professions from working in a shop, managing a large office team to being almost self sufficient in the middle of the countryside.
On moving to London I really didn't have much of a plan, found a flat to share, packed my bags and got on the train to start a new adventure. I met my best friend (who lived in London at the time) for a few drinks, I say a few, I can hardly remember the end of the evening! We got talking about what I was going to do, of course, the obvious choice of heading to the agencies and looking for some office temping work but I was a bit hard up and really wanted to start bringing in some cash as it's an expensive city!
During the drunken catch up we got onto the subject of M (who's gay) using craigslist site to find casual sex, he had had one or two experiences from it and we got talking about whether as a straight guy I could offer guys a massage. I'm very chilled about sex and sexual orientation and really didn't mind the idea of giving a guy a hand or happy ending at the end of the session.... a plan was forming!
So, next day I browsed craigslist and decided to put an advert in the m4m section, something like 'Straight Skint Bloke Offering Massage'... haha, I know, not that tempting but I really didn't know how to word it! I had quite a few replies and arranged my first booking.
I'm going to write about my experiences, with clients and generally living in London... to start with the entries won't be in a particular order as I didn't keep a diary and can only go on scanning my emails and from memory... although I will write about more recent adventures too.
I really hope you enjoy reading my blog and want to just say thanks to the clients I have seen so far, it's always been fun and I've met some lovely people on the way.
I moved to London in October 2011, for many reasons, mainly personal but mainly I wanted to start over. I've done many things since leaving home when I was 18, lived all over the UK and had a few different professions from working in a shop, managing a large office team to being almost self sufficient in the middle of the countryside.
On moving to London I really didn't have much of a plan, found a flat to share, packed my bags and got on the train to start a new adventure. I met my best friend (who lived in London at the time) for a few drinks, I say a few, I can hardly remember the end of the evening! We got talking about what I was going to do, of course, the obvious choice of heading to the agencies and looking for some office temping work but I was a bit hard up and really wanted to start bringing in some cash as it's an expensive city!
During the drunken catch up we got onto the subject of M (who's gay) using craigslist site to find casual sex, he had had one or two experiences from it and we got talking about whether as a straight guy I could offer guys a massage. I'm very chilled about sex and sexual orientation and really didn't mind the idea of giving a guy a hand or happy ending at the end of the session.... a plan was forming!
So, next day I browsed craigslist and decided to put an advert in the m4m section, something like 'Straight Skint Bloke Offering Massage'... haha, I know, not that tempting but I really didn't know how to word it! I had quite a few replies and arranged my first booking.
I'm going to write about my experiences, with clients and generally living in London... to start with the entries won't be in a particular order as I didn't keep a diary and can only go on scanning my emails and from memory... although I will write about more recent adventures too.
I really hope you enjoy reading my blog and want to just say thanks to the clients I have seen so far, it's always been fun and I've met some lovely people on the way.
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